How Can I Calm My Nervous System?

Helping your body recover from stress.

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Your nervous system is an incredible communication network that is constantly gathering information from both your body and the world around you.

It helps coordinate processes throughout your body, including heart rate, breathing, movement, sensation, attention, and how you respond to what is happening around you.

One of its most important responsibilities is helping you respond to stress.

A green valley with rolling hills and mountains under a cloudy sky.
A green valley with rolling hills and mountains under a cloudy sky.

your nervous system helps you respond

When something feels demanding, threatening, uncertain, or overwhelming, your body can respond in ways that prepare you to deal with it. Your heart may beat faster, your breathing may change, your muscles may tense, or your attention may narrow.

When the demand passes, these responses can settle as the body shifts toward recovery.

During stress, activity associated with the body’s fight-or-flight response can increase, preparing you to respond to what is happening.

The nervous system also supports rest, digestion, recovery, and restoration. These systems aren’t simply an on-and-off switch, and being regulated doesn’t mean remaining calm all the time.



The good news is we don’t have to be in a calm state every second of the day because stress is a normal part of being human. Our bodies are built to respond and adapt to changing demands.

So, we won’t be focusing on how to avoid stress as a whole.

We will be building a healthier relationship with it.

Recognizing what affects us with a little more awareness.

Pausing before reacting.

Choosing coping strategies that leave us feeling more grounded instead of more overwhelmed.

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Close-up of vibrant green fern fronds with overlapping leaves in dark natural light

Supporting Your Nervous System Through Repetition

Repetition doesn’t have to be complicated.

Supporting your nervous system can look different for everyone.

Options include stepping away from your phone for a few minutes, eating a meal without multitasking, spending time in nature, moving your body gently, listening to calming music, creating with your hands, protecting your sleep, or allowing a few quiet moments between tasks.

Many people discover that supporting the nervous system involves looking a little deeper.

Our thoughts, beliefs, habits, and responses can be influenced by our experiences over time.

Becoming aware of our patterns can give us more information about how we tend to respond and create an opportunity to choose what may support us now.


Some people find practices such as meditation, journaling, mindfulness, or quiet reflection supportive.

Others may find support through therapy, spiritual practice, meaningful conversations with people they trust, movement, creative practices, or a combination of approaches.

When stress continues without enough opportunity for recovery, it can take a toll on both the body and mind.

Making room for recovery and developing supportive ways of responding to stress can help us care for ourselves through the demands of everyday life.

We begin building a healthier relationship with stress by learning to respond with greater awareness, perspective, and self-compassion.

With time, we may find ourselves moving through life with a little less resistance

and a little more room to respond.



Nature & Sound is a place to slow down and reconnect through sound baths, guided meditations, and reflections on slower living. Whether our paths cross at a future sound bath, through a meditation, or in a Quiet Note, I’m grateful you’re here.

I hope this reflection encouraged you to slow down for a moment and reconnect with what you’ve been needing, in whatever way that looks like for you.

— Dominique

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